Haters gonna hate

Yeah the haters gonna hate hate hate hate hate ...... 
here’s something that really grinds my gears.. why are people so interested in other people’s lives and more specifically finding fault in other people’s lives!. 
Are you really that unhappy with yourself that you feel the need to find fault with others just to make yourself feel better?. 
If you don’t want to know about my epilepsy or my life or my lipstick collection or whatever else you may have taken offence to then don’t read my blog!!. Why read it if you know you’re not going to like it???? I don’t like spicy food it gives me indigestion so I don’t eat it ... I don’t chow down on an extra hot vindaloo and then moan about it afterwards. If I’m going to be daft enough to eat the food that I know is going to give me indigestion I had better drag my backside to Boots ,get myself some Rennies  and shut the heck up because it’s my own fault. 
So if you don’t like what I write but choose to read it anyway, you better slap a plaster on the part of your delicate soul I have offended and move on. 
No matter what you do in life, there are always going to be people who don’t like you for it and that’s totally fine!!! You can’t please everybody and let’s be honest nobody likes a people pleaser!. 
If being who you are or standing up for the things you believe in offends someone, take it as a compliment. One of my favourite all time quotes comes from Winston Churchill he said “you have enemy’s? Good, it means you stood up for something , sometime in your life”. I LOVE that quote. 
I already decided at the beginning of the year that I was getting rid of all the negativity in my life, all the toxic friends and people who’s mere presence in my life makes it miserable. Granted you can’t always remove the negative people from your life fully, the last time I checked both the Kray twins were dead and under my mothers decking is full, but what you can do however is throw them in the chuck it bucket and move on. I have to say since I adopted this new way of thinking last month I already feel so much better and happier. 
My advice to everyone would be just let the haters hate, put your lipstick on, smile and get on with your life. 
While there is no one specific person that comes to mind as I write this .... if the shoe fits .... feel free to lace that bad boy up and wear it!!! 


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